Love is a gamble on trust on honesty. Either one gone, the relationship means nothing.
Family members do betray sometimes, no? But we still trust them don't we?
Why can't we do the same to a relationship?
Break is bigger than big.
Once that word is being thrown out, its as good as waving a white flag in front of the enemy and say " I give up".
It doesn't mean you can "abuse" the word and say it over and over again. Taking it for granted that the next time you say it, everything will be back to normal the next day. But what if it doesn't?
On the other hand if everytime you say that bigger-than-big word and the person still comes back to you. It only goes to show how much you mean to that person right?
I can't say much for other people. But there was once a guy two-timed me and i broke up with him. I said that word and that person never came back. NEVER. It didn't have an impact on him. So i'll just have to let him go. He's not worth it. But in a situation like this but he comes back, what more can i say? He still loves me!

I'm dedicating my "speech" to a particular person whom i shall not name. I'm not criticising, discriminating or what ever. But i just wanna let you see a bigger picture of what me as an outsider has observed. Learn to trust ok? Cuz from what i see both of you are SUPER insecure and totally don't trust each other. Build up that trust again and love each other like you did during your honeymoon period =) i know its not easy, but its not impossible =D.

Its good to trust again =) i understand how it feels to lose trust in a person. SCARY.